I'll help. But, first here's a background.
"Nintendo sent out a new update for the dsi (#1.4 is the update), which basicly blocks the use of flashcards (R4). The people who made the R4's went ahead, and made a R4 update as well, which changes the name of the game icon that pops up on the dsi menu, so that it could still work pass the Nintendo Dsi update. One of the card you have already had the R4 update, the other did not. Hence one had the Starwars Icon."
1.Now to update the other card, you must download the update file to run on the R4.
2.Put the update file on your R4 (Micro Memory Card)
3.Put the R4 in either a Dsi that isnt updated with Nintendo, or a Normal Ds or a ds lite.
4.Run the update file you downloaded
5.Your R4 should now have the starwars icon and will play on a dsi updated to nintendos 1.4 update.